Unconditional Love Brings Freedom
Written by Jared Capello
So many people don’t want to be “tied down” or stuck in a relationship for fear that they will lose their freedom. This a legitimate fear especially if your experience in relationships has been one of control, in that you felt you were being controlled, trying to be controlled, wanting to control, or being controlling. This is never a fun scenario for either party because where a need to control is present, freedom is not.
When you sense someone that you’re in relationship with is trying to control you or is only loving you to get something in return, you are going to feel the need to keep a part of yourself away from them for fear of losing more freedom. If you are the one attempting to control your partner you are causing them to shut down in particular areas of their life and they are either consciously or subconsciously building resentment toward you. No one wants to be controlled and it is never anyone’s job or right to try to control another person.
In an intimate relationship, it is essential that you and your partner both feel the freedom to do the things that are important, say the things that need to be said no matter what and most importantly have the freedom to entirely, fully be yourselves. The only thing that allows someone to freely be themselves with another is unconditional love.
Unconditional love says and means, “I love you no matter what” because it loves without thought of gain or loss by the other person’s actions. Unconditional love is not entitled and therefore is able to transcend any situation, problem or ideal to bring about the most empowering feeling and the most empowering solution. This empowerment is what fuels freedom and if you want the kind of high-flying, passionate, fulfilling relationship that you know you were created for then amp up the amount of love in your life.
Decide to unconditionally love yourself first no matter what and then decide to unconditionally love others as well. In doing so you’ll relinquish your need to control (fear) and most importantly you will release your delusional idea that you can in fact control another person.
Here’s a little side note: A lot of people are not able to fully be themselves with themselves because they do not unconditionally love themselves. Their lack of freedom may have nothing to do with your love toward them and everything to do with their love toward themselves.
If you are struggling or feeling a lack of freedom in your relationships please do yourself a favor and schedule a free consultation with me by clicking HERE. There is no time like now to step into more freedom and experience the lasting breakthrough that you deserve.
I am also happy to announce that we have special Holiday pricing on ALL programs!! If you’ve been waiting to talk or hesitant about stepping into relational wholeness there is no better time than now to schedule your free Relational Breakthrough Session!
I hope you had the best Thanksgiving to date and that this Holiday Season will exceed all of your expectations!
Until next time, Live the Love you were created from.
Forever Loving,
Jared
So many people don’t want to be “tied down” or stuck in a relationship for fear that they will lose their freedom. This a legitimate fear especially if your experience in relationships has been one of control, in that you felt you were being controlled, trying to be controlled, wanting to control, or being controlling. This is never a fun scenario for either party because where a need to control is present, freedom is not.
When you sense someone that you’re in relationship with is trying to control you or is only loving you to get something in return, you are going to feel the need to keep a part of yourself away from them for fear of losing more freedom. If you are the one attempting to control your partner you are causing them to shut down in particular areas of their life and they are either consciously or subconsciously building resentment toward you. No one wants to be controlled and it is never anyone’s job or right to try to control another person.
In an intimate relationship, it is essential that you and your partner both feel the freedom to do the things that are important, say the things that need to be said no matter what and most importantly have the freedom to entirely, fully be yourselves. The only thing that allows someone to freely be themselves with another is unconditional love.
Unconditional love says and means, “I love you no matter what” because it loves without thought of gain or loss by the other person’s actions. Unconditional love is not entitled and therefore is able to transcend any situation, problem or ideal to bring about the most empowering feeling and the most empowering solution. This empowerment is what fuels freedom and if you want the kind of high-flying, passionate, fulfilling relationship that you know you were created for then amp up the amount of love in your life.
Decide to unconditionally love yourself first no matter what and then decide to unconditionally love others as well. In doing so you’ll relinquish your need to control (fear) and most importantly you will release your delusional idea that you can in fact control another person.
Here’s a little side note: A lot of people are not able to fully be themselves with themselves because they do not unconditionally love themselves. Their lack of freedom may have nothing to do with your love toward them and everything to do with their love toward themselves.
If you are struggling or feeling a lack of freedom in your relationships please do yourself a favor and schedule a free consultation with me by clicking HERE. There is no time like now to step into more freedom and experience the lasting breakthrough that you deserve.
I am also happy to announce that we have special Holiday pricing on ALL programs!! If you’ve been waiting to talk or hesitant about stepping into relational wholeness there is no better time than now to schedule your free Relational Breakthrough Session!
I hope you had the best Thanksgiving to date and that this Holiday Season will exceed all of your expectations!
Until next time, Live the Love you were created from.
Forever Loving,
Jared
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